If you hate the struggle of being in a relationship then why are you in one? You know, there is absolutely nothing wrong with focusing on yourself and your goals and your life, but why start a relationship if you can't devote yourself to it? I think that's abit unfair.
Nobody forced you to start a relationship with this guy, and its perfectly normal to not want or need anyone else in your life as your significant other, but agreeing to be in a relationship means agreeing to consider that person and their feelings as much as you consider your own, and it doesn't sound like you can do that.
I would suggets you explain this to him, that you're not ready for a relationship and that you would much rather focus on your life and goals.
Allow him a chance at finding someone who's willing to devote themselves to him, as I'm sure he'll devote himself to them.
IIN that i'd rather go to practice then to be with him
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If you hate the struggle of being in a relationship then why are you in one? You know, there is absolutely nothing wrong with focusing on yourself and your goals and your life, but why start a relationship if you can't devote yourself to it? I think that's abit unfair.
Nobody forced you to start a relationship with this guy, and its perfectly normal to not want or need anyone else in your life as your significant other, but agreeing to be in a relationship means agreeing to consider that person and their feelings as much as you consider your own, and it doesn't sound like you can do that.
I would suggets you explain this to him, that you're not ready for a relationship and that you would much rather focus on your life and goals.
Allow him a chance at finding someone who's willing to devote themselves to him, as I'm sure he'll devote himself to them.