Cutting is never normal no matter what a person has been through but it goes a long way to explaining why a person would do such behaviour.
The best thing you can do is find an adult that will listen to you and tell them about your mother. Because if she is refusing to let you see your counselor, she is directly disrupting your road to recovery.
Secondly, cutting is a form of control, when we can't control what happens around us or feel like we have no control over our lives, by cutting we take back the situation and feel as though we can control something. It's the same principle with most self-destructive behaviours, taking back a measure of control.
But there are better ways to do such a thing and feel better. Going for a walk is one way to clear your head or writing down how you feel before tearing the paper up. You could even try writing poems or songs, so long as you are getting the feelings out.
Is It Normal That I cut?
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Cutting is never normal no matter what a person has been through but it goes a long way to explaining why a person would do such behaviour.
The best thing you can do is find an adult that will listen to you and tell them about your mother. Because if she is refusing to let you see your counselor, she is directly disrupting your road to recovery.
Secondly, cutting is a form of control, when we can't control what happens around us or feel like we have no control over our lives, by cutting we take back the situation and feel as though we can control something. It's the same principle with most self-destructive behaviours, taking back a measure of control.
But there are better ways to do such a thing and feel better. Going for a walk is one way to clear your head or writing down how you feel before tearing the paper up. You could even try writing poems or songs, so long as you are getting the feelings out.
I hope this could help a little and good luck.
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^she is 100% right