The problem with demanding a woman who can orgasm from penetration alone is.... that you actually have to be good in bed for this to work.
I've been with some who CAN do this but with some who can't.
And of course you might find that women think of this as being lazy... cos many women aren't going to want to be with a man who's not going to give them foreplay. They may also see it as selfishness - and arrogance - for a man to treat her as if there's something wrong with her... if his cock isn't enough to get her off.
I do foreplay with any girl I'm with or am consistently seeing but I shouldn't be expected to perform cunnilingus on a girl that I met a few hours before I would never expect a girl to give me oral sex the first time I'm with them. This is my preference it's no different than a woman saying they would not be with a man who is inept in bed. And if I know a woman is capable of orgasming from sex alone I will put in the time and effort to make sure it happens.
I don't know if this is true or not. In my experience orgasmic tension in women dissipates extremely fast if stimulation stops abruptly or changes drastically. Your a woman though so you know better than me. However the girls I have been with it doesn't really matter if i went down on them or not it takes relatively the same amount of time for them to orgasm from penetration and if I have figured out how to make a girl cum from penetration once it gives a good guide and I can do it nearly every time with few exceptions
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The problem with demanding a woman who can orgasm from penetration alone is.... that you actually have to be good in bed for this to work.
I've been with some who CAN do this but with some who can't.
And of course you might find that women think of this as being lazy... cos many women aren't going to want to be with a man who's not going to give them foreplay. They may also see it as selfishness - and arrogance - for a man to treat her as if there's something wrong with her... if his cock isn't enough to get her off.
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I do foreplay with any girl I'm with or am consistently seeing but I shouldn't be expected to perform cunnilingus on a girl that I met a few hours before I would never expect a girl to give me oral sex the first time I'm with them. This is my preference it's no different than a woman saying they would not be with a man who is inept in bed. And if I know a woman is capable of orgasming from sex alone I will put in the time and effort to make sure it happens.
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the thing is though... you're also forgetting sex isn't always the same each time.
a woman might be able to come from her man's penis alone but ... that doesn't mean it'll happen every time.
and remember, giving your woman foreplay and clitoral orgasms is likely going to prime her for orgasming from penetration as well.
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I don't know if this is true or not. In my experience orgasmic tension in women dissipates extremely fast if stimulation stops abruptly or changes drastically. Your a woman though so you know better than me. However the girls I have been with it doesn't really matter if i went down on them or not it takes relatively the same amount of time for them to orgasm from penetration and if I have figured out how to make a girl cum from penetration once it gives a good guide and I can do it nearly every time with few exceptions
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sometimes having an orgasm first helps lubricate and helps the woman relax.
this in turn allows her vagina to open up a little more, so that penetration is easier and more comfortable.
you may need to let her calm down for a minute or two (she may be over sensitive at first) but it shouldn't take that long.