Is it normal that i constantly think about a girl i met 2 yrs ago?

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So 2 years ago, I met this girl in a church retreat, it was a 3 day event in which I had the ability to spend alot of time with her. She is very pretty with a great personality. I knew I had feelings for her then and I had reasons to suspect that she did too. When we separated, I was totally infatuated with her. Or," in love". I doubted myself, saying that I don't even know what love is, blah blah blah.. However, almost 2 years has passed and I still constantly think about her. Even today, valentines day, I thought about her. So, anyone who has an opinion blurt it out please. :D
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  • iwantanswers
    11 years ago | pl

    Well, I read once that a crush lasts 4 months (maximum), after 4 months you are in love. So that's what I think, I think you are in love! :)

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  • thoughtfulopt29
    11 years ago | pl

    happened to me but i got older an met more girls an they seem even more special

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  • FireFlower
    9 years ago | pl

    Hell yeah. I still think about this guy from four years ago.

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  • opal-leaves
    10 years ago | pl

    This is really cute. I used to feel this way toward boys when I was younger (13-16). I am 20 now. I am not sure if you're young but if you are, this is TOTALLY normal. :)

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  • ed10198902
    11 years ago | pl

    maybe the fact that you only got to know her for a short time is working against you- only being exposed to her best attributes may be causing you to put her on a pedestal. that doesnt mean your not in love or your feelings arent genuine, but chances are she's not as great your impression of her and/or there are other girls that could make you just as happy and in love as she could have. your situation is an uncommon one- 2 years is a long time- but i dont think your abnormal. my advice is to keep an open heart toward other girls and not to worry about it too much

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  • Downcast7
    11 years ago | pl

    Crushes. Theres this one girl i keep on thinking of lately. Besides my ex, thank god. She was really nice and i kinda fell for her of course. I havent known her much, but knowing ME as a person, i cant be with her. She already has a bf and blah blah blah im not good enough for her. End of rant.

    Now you. 2 years in love with this girl, or infatuated. Thats deep man. Life aint a movie so im not expecting crazy stunts or stupid romance crap but if this girls been in your heart for a while, i suggest you soul search buddy. Find out why 2 years, you know? But like, dont obsess over it.

    Anyways, just an opinion.

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