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I’m 24 and can’t find a girlfriend because I have Asperger’s which gives me social issues that I can’t work on. After being rejected over 50 times, I’ve decided to jut cry and whine about it for my whole life because my disability defines me.
I actually find myself inexplicably drawn to AS people. I sometimes get this feeling of affinity with them, even though I don't have asperger's.
The lowest common denominator of many of the men I instinctively find myself liking is that they turn out to fall somewhere on the autistic spectrum!! It's like an 'autism radar'! If my brain selects this trait on a subconscious level, without my even knowing beforehand that the person wasn't neurotypical, surely there must be others who do that as well! There MUST be other girls who like aspergic guys.
Keep looking... look in the right places... and I should like to echo RoseIsabella's advice, too.
This is a heartbreaking situation, and RoseIsabella has a good suggestion. But, be glad you are not as badly off as I am. You can hire a young cute prostitute. I can't do that because I cannot get it up. I am just pathetic.
My grandpa used yo say "you're better alone than with bad company". So you dont need a girlfriend/wife to be happy.
I have Asperger's and I'm 15. I prefer to be alone because it's more peaceful, I live with my parents, sister, and grandmother but I'm in my room at my computer all day, everyday so I'm alone. I love my family but I prefer to be alone.
It's normal that you are alone, but not normal that you feel this way about it. You may have depression and self esteem issues.
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Ok I just googled that shit. Your uncomfy around people so what most of us are mate. Hell I have a really bad phobia of showers and toilets but I push that to the side out of nessicity. Just swallow it and move past it man
You can't find a girlfriend because you're probably an obnoxious incel, not because you have a mild mental handicap.
Says someone without Asperger’s who has zero experience knowing an Aspie or two.
If anything, the definition of “incel” ties directly with the Autistic Spectrum because the symptoms related to my disability prevents me from learning the social traits needed to be attractive to women. Asperger’s is involuntary and it made me celibate.
I would bet that this is the same person who claimed to have given his bank info, over the phone, to someone claiming to be the IRS.
What a dip shit.
Has no one caught on he's trolling yet? Gawd damn lol. To make a mockery by admitting you cry and whine. When that's what people say people with autism/specifically aspergers do
Nice try, not today Satan. Troll elsewhere.
If you give up then you are certain to never find someone and be alone forever. Is that worth shielding yourself from some possible rejection? I don't know you, maybe it is. Just worth thinking about.
"That I cant work on". You have already given up, what do you want people to say? Many people have this and many people have found ways to cope and be successful, you are obviously throwing in the towel young. Its up to you, not a bunch of us idiots on here. If you are ready to be done working on improving you, then yes you are going to be a depressed SOB for the rest of your life. If you want to work hard at this you can but it is work, it is not going to be easy and there will be more failures. Nothing worthwhile has ever come easy.
My Asperger’s made me give up. I am not the problem, my disability is and I will never be an SOB because my disability is the reason why I’m upset.
And believe me, a lot of worthwhile things come easy to people. Like those tall handsome dudes at frat houses get women easily without any issues. For me, it’s nearly impossible to impossible.
You don’t have my problems.
No, but my niece does and she has worked to be a winderful person. You want to hide behind your disability. If you have given up, fine that is on you. But dont come on here bitching and whining that your disease made you do something. And i am by far some wealthy good looking frst boy. And yes, superficial stuff does come easy, but anything worthwhile requires work. The greatest athletes in the world still practice. The greatest minds in the world still study and research.
Give up or not, i dont care. But dont give up and complain.