is it normal that i cant have a boyfriend?

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  • dom180
    10 years ago | pl

    Why does your coach have any say in your life? I'm sure you can keep a secret from your coach, can't you?

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    • artsy
      10 years ago | pl

      he has a say in my life cuz gymnastics is my life and hes my coach so hes praticaly in my life and NO i can not keep a secret from him once a girl named alexis did and they were at a restraunt and they kissed and my coach saw and..... i think you know what happends next

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      • Charmo
        10 years ago | pl

        Actually, no I don't. Did he confront them? Did he kick her out of the gym and change the locks? Did he bludgeon the guy to death with a hammer for touching his girl? What?
        And I fail to see how it is at all his business what you do with your personal life. He's your gymnastics coach, not your life coach. Hell, I'm pretty sure even a life coach would be overstepping their bounds in literally forbidding his pupil from fraternizing with the opposite sex. Now, I don't know this guy personally, but from the way you describe him and the way you react to him it sounds like this guy is very controlling and perhaps even manipulative.
        Having a boyfriend may distract from your gymnastics, then again, it may not. But if it does, that's YOUR problem, not his.

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