Is it normal that i cant get aroused

I don't want to masturbate like other woman, I don't get turned on when I am alone ,I don't even feel to touch myself, but when I see my boyfriend I do get turned on and want to do it

sad thing is I am unable to get orgasm even if I am enjoying sex

Is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Maybe you have a really low sex drive.

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  • Keep trying ,try different things soon you will be rubbing everyday

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  • Sad think is your boyfriend is pathetic.

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  • It is bad to hear but real fact is that ur bf can not give u the ultimate pleasure. It os not ur problem. Many guys can not make a girl to cum. Licking is best art. Tell ur bf to lick u like wild dog.

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  • Not really normal. Sorry. Whats holding you back?

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  • Find a safe place, with no chance of being caught. And go wild!

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  • Is there anything wrong with your boyfriend's cock that doesnt get you to climax ?
    Have you ever been sexually molested ?
    The reason I ask is because I know a woman who said she was sexually molested when she was 4 or 5 years old and she said she has never been able to have an orgasm.
    She is 57 years old now.
    She said he put a towel over her face so she couldnt see what he was doing , she said she knows that he stuck something in her cunt , but she didnt know if it was a finger or a pencil or a cock.
    She doesnt know if the reason why she can't cum is physical or psychological.
    She doesnt know if whatever he stuck in her twat damaged something inside of her and popped her cherry if that's why she cant have an orgasm.
    She never got it checked out.
    She couldnt tell her parents at 4 or 5 years old because if it was one of her parents relatives , she didnt want to start a fight in the family or didnt want the guy to go to jail.
    She said the first time she ever had consensual sex with a cock was when she was 12 1/2 years old.
    She said she could take sex or leave it , because she doesnt get anything out of it.
    She said the only reason she has ever had sex was to get the guy off.
    She said she does feel a sensation when she has had anal sex , but not enough to give her an anal orgasm.
    She said she didnt know what she was missing her whole life when she finally had a cock in her ass for the first time.
    She said it hurt at first when the head of the cock is entering her booty hole , but she said once the head was in , the rest of the cock's shaft just slid right in with no pain and no problem.
    She said they all used K - Y Jelly on their cocks to stick it in her shit pipe.
    She liked it when the cock was thrusting in and out and all the way in to the hilt as far up her poop chute as far as it would go.
    She said the cocks usually did get her poop on them.
    She did ask me if I wanted to stick my cock in her cunt , ass and mouth , and I said yes , sure , okay.
    She said okay , let me see your penis and balls { nuts } , so she unzipped my pants and whipped my cock out.
    I know she was telling the truth about her molestation because we had sex for an hour and she never got wet from my cock or from my fingers in her twat or in her asshole.
    I even tried to see if I could get her to cum by fisting her , but even that didnt get her wet.
    If that didnt get her wet , nothing will.

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    • I get wet,i am turned on when I see him,but I cant reach an orgasm I feel so unworthy now:(

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      • I used to have a similar problem until I tried some different, kinkier things.

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      • Don't feel bad, maybe you can try some mild kinks if vanilla sex doesn't reach full potential.

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