Is it normal that i cant flirt?
i cant seem to flirt with any girl.
i've tried it, but end up asking silly questions.
can anyone help me to how to ask the right questions and put them in the right way?
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i cant seem to flirt with any girl.
i've tried it, but end up asking silly questions.
can anyone help me to how to ask the right questions and put them in the right way?
Flirting is not about what is said it's about how it's said. A cheeky smile and a touch on the arm will go a long way. Sort out your body langauge so that you seem open to the girl; you are clearly a shy guy so there is no point trying to have a script when talking to girls because that adds pressure to the situation. Just be spontanious, cheeky and get in a wink somewhere = flirting.
Sure, we can all give u liners all day and you'll probably get rejected just as much. just try being genuine and charming. Making her laugh is a really good start. Keep ur eye out for the subtle signs that she is interested, like touching her hair and covering her mouth when she laughs. If she asks about personal stuff without prompting, it usually means she's interested, and you can move in for the kill, subtly.
the act of flirting is not defined as asking questions. you can flirt with a person whether or not you know them, or are trying to get to know them. how bout you just throw them a big inviting smile and ask them how their day is? bring up a movie you like, ask them if they like it. ask them what they like instead...so on and so forth. The trick is to be open, sweet and natural (chill). Flirting is not something you have to try to do seeing as it will come naturally when you "click" with a person. You sound like your in high school so take it easy and try to relax. Mostly though, smile, compliment, and show interest by eye contact, and body language (put your hand lightly on her arm in agreement or praising, etc)