Is it normal that i cant cum?

okay so i have a boyfriend who i am in complete love with and we have great literally great sex, but I have a few problems i cant cum. He tries to go down on me and I just really dont enjoy it, it even hurts a little. Then when we are having sex I have never gotten the feeling that i wanted to cum either. Is it me or is it him? what should i do? He gets upset because I cant cum he thinks he's doing a bad job. IS THIS NORMAL?!

Is It Normal?
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  • Are you a guy or a girl? (just to know)

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  • NORMAL. I agree with above -- know what pleases you by exploring your body.

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  • well you need to tell him what you like and dislike otherwise how are you supposed to reach orgasm? do you actually know what you like? maybe spend a night masturbating and then when you finally reach the unreachable O, tell and show your boyfriend what you like and take it from there.
    its only you that is going to lose out from not being able to get off with him which is why i have never understood why girls fake it.....

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