Is it normal that i can´t trust in him anymore

I´d been with my boyfriend for 4 years, a month ago he broke up with me and I was felling terrible, 10 days later, he came by my house, we talk and end up getting back together, but I found out that he went out with some other girl those days he says that he didn´t do it that the texts messages that I found are there because the girl is crazy and wants something with him, any way, for what the texts says I don´t believe him and now I´m wondering about the real reason why he broke up with in the fisrt place, was it for this girl?, ´cause after all I´m the one that ask him to get back together. I know he wasn´t with me but going out with someone two days after you broke up with your girlfriend of four years? I just don´t know what to think.

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  • jenny**

    I believe he did break up with you to be with this girl or maybe he just wanted to try something different :( since the first day he broke up with you everything changed and trust me, it will never be the same again, what you had was broken and it will never be fixed. My opinion is: break up with him, let him go and start all over again with someone new.

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  • joelsmo

    You do not need counseling, what you need is a little self esteem. You are obviously young and have plenty of time for boyfriends, dump him. It may sound harsh but you will now never trust him. If you can't trust someone you shouldn't be with them. He most likely is still getting it on the side, I don't have to tell you that you already know it.

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