Please don't tell her that she's not attractive any more. Trust me, she remembers how she used to look. The fact that she tries to diet is proof that she's trying to change. You, her husband are the best person to help her stay motivated.
Maybe you could tell her that you'd like to eat healthier. Ask her if she could try to buy and prepare better foods (assuming that she does the grocery shopping). If you make it more about you changing, instead of her, she will likely change too. Let it be something that you do together. Ask her if she will walk with you after dinner or something. Do it together and it will get done :-)
Is it normal that I can't tell my wife she's fat
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Please don't tell her that she's not attractive any more. Trust me, she remembers how she used to look. The fact that she tries to diet is proof that she's trying to change. You, her husband are the best person to help her stay motivated.
Maybe you could tell her that you'd like to eat healthier. Ask her if she could try to buy and prepare better foods (assuming that she does the grocery shopping). If you make it more about you changing, instead of her, she will likely change too. Let it be something that you do together. Ask her if she will walk with you after dinner or something. Do it together and it will get done :-)
Good Luck!
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Brilliant advice! :)