Is it normal that i can't talk to men?

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Ok. My problem is I can't talk to guys. In a group i'll just go quiet and have nothing to say. If it's just me and him i'll find a way to just leave the room. I dunno I just feel like they wouldn't be interested at all, so I just save them the trouble and leave. I'm fine if i'm taking to guys behind the counter or whatever but not personally. ugh, i dunno, I don't think i'll ever be able to get a boyfriend if i stay like this, but I don't know what to do, i feel like a sexist b**ch, :/.

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  • YumInsanity
    12 years ago | pl

    this is natural selection trying its best to remove you from the gene pool. you can die out quietly or you can fight back by dressing slutty and grabbing guys crotches, they love it when bitches grab their junk, you'll have more boyfriends than you have crippling social paranoia in no time

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  • gako
    13 years ago | pl

    Your shy

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  • nat200
    13 years ago | pl

    *is gay

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  • nat200
    13 years ago | pl

    Dude I am almost exactly like this. That's why I'm 20 and never had a bf. I never befriend guys or talk to them if I don't have to. Only guy friend I have I'd gay!

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  • Sindom
    13 years ago | pl

    I am not sexcist , but I know what you mean.For some reason I have trouble talking to females

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Relax - dumping on yourself is not going to increase your confidence. Pick some simple opening lines, like: "Hi, how are you today?" Or something appropriate to the groups' reason for being together. Then pick some closing lines. Then just let whatever happens in between happen.

    Try not to load things up with expectations, like this will be a boyfriend. Be over-the-counter about it.

    Also there is nothing sexist about how you feel.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago | pl

    hmmm, well this is a weird one, :/.

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