Is it normal that i can't stand myself?
I hate everything about me...is that normal?
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I hate everything about me...is that normal?
Each person is a gift... and every day we have is a blessing... Life is what you make of it. Negative thoughts and actions only foster the same, people do much better with a more positive direction. As hard as it mean seem try doing one self less act a day. A random act of kindness will fill your heart with a feeling like no other. Picking up a dropped paper, for an elderly woman, as you are passing by in the grocery store, is a random act of kindness. Opening the door or holding it open for then next person, is a random act of kindness. By doing these things, it causes a chain reaction, where people tend to want to do something nice too. Pay it Forward...
Loving yourself is not the same as being conceited. Before other people can/will love you, you have to love yourself. Take care of your body, mind and soul. The more "Positive" you are the more your body and mind can stay healthy. Have you ever noticed that often times when we are enduring stressful moments in our lives, we often get sick? Change begins from within, you have to want to love yourself first. You have to acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses and go from there. Have you ever noticed that when people are grumpy, or irritable, that it can be difficult to stay happy or upbeat around them? Negative energy is like a vacuum, it just sucks it right up! Before you know it, BAM! Everyone that has been subjected to their grumpiness is now a bit edgy. Happens quite fast. Well, it works both ways. Laughter is contagious. Getting someone to come out of their "funk", can be tough, but a good laugh, usually does the trick.
I just can't wrap my head around the concept of hating oneself... I encourage you to start loving yourselves, finding the good qualities and capabilities and making a change, because you want to. because you are tired of being miserable. Because you are tired of being alone. Because you want companionship. Because you want friendship. Because you want to be loved. Because you want to love someone. Because you want to!
I think a lot of people go through these kind of feelings. I feel that way a lot too. I mean, I know that there's things that I'm really good at, somethings that I'm good at a lot of people don't even know. But I still can't help but feel that I probably shouldn't be here. People have told me that I'm too hard on myself, but I feel like the moments(which are rare) that I'm not putting myself down, somebody else is, and then I find reason to hate myself.
It's probably low self esteem. Maybe you should talk to someone.
In a way its normal, when someones at your house all the time you begin to dislike them more and more, which is why we get annoyed at the people we love right? You could do somethig different, clean your room have a bath put some bright clothes on and do your hair up nice the way you wouldnt on a typical day, take time for you and relax with it.