Well this topic hits home for me a little (a little too much that is!)
I say appreciate those young kids and enjoy your life with them, as it may not be forever.
I'm basically disgusted at the 'modern' woman who has little of her selfish time to love her own children, but that's just me talking from seeing the mother of my own kids (at 4 and 3) walk out on all of us many years ago.
Sorry to hear that was your situation Dad, but you're better off without her.
I am only saying that this poor woman is mentally exhausted and having to force her affection. It is a very rare woman who can walk out on her children. They are hard work but it does get better - just a shame your mrs didn't hang around to find out. Maybe she was suffering from severe depression?!
Top marks for sticking by your kids, many another man would've put them into care.
Yes I agree severe depression, but I had just bought a brand new house (personally designed by both of us!) She had a good reliable car, and so did I plus my career.
Shall we just say EVERYTHING is went; wow its great to rent a cheap house too!!!
I will say that staying with my kids every single day and night, for the last 11 years has been good, seriously generally guys miss out on the life I've had. No money anymore, but great life with kids.
Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. I'm definately NOT selfish. I carry too much guilt to be. I guess I can blame my mother for that one. LOL. I know the type you're talking about. I see them all over. I try not to judge them and maybe I'm a BIT jealous of them because I feel like they don't have the worries that I do you know? They go off to work all day and dump their kids off then put them to bed only to do it the next day. They work and lose their kids' childhoods so they can live in a new house and drive an SUV. It's sickening. Hang in there yourself. There ARE good women out there. A single dad raising his kids alone is a pretty noble thing from most that I've seen and you will surely catch someone's eye. Soon I hope. :)
No probs babybunny77, just me letting out some 'old' steam.
Thanks for your nice words. Mind you I probably should actually go out one day to actually find someone, oh well this is not about me anyway.
Stick in there, for your kids sake. I've seen too many tears and tantrums and deep down sadness from children without their Mom. Strangely they NEVER give up hope, which makes it even more sad! Holly shit, I'm going now.. (I hate thinking about it)
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Well this topic hits home for me a little (a little too much that is!)
I say appreciate those young kids and enjoy your life with them, as it may not be forever.
I'm basically disgusted at the 'modern' woman who has little of her selfish time to love her own children, but that's just me talking from seeing the mother of my own kids (at 4 and 3) walk out on all of us many years ago.
Get with it woman, you are their loving Mum!!!
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Sorry to hear that was your situation Dad, but you're better off without her.
I am only saying that this poor woman is mentally exhausted and having to force her affection. It is a very rare woman who can walk out on her children. They are hard work but it does get better - just a shame your mrs didn't hang around to find out. Maybe she was suffering from severe depression?!
Top marks for sticking by your kids, many another man would've put them into care.
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Thanks joybird appreciated.
Yes I agree severe depression, but I had just bought a brand new house (personally designed by both of us!) She had a good reliable car, and so did I plus my career.
Shall we just say EVERYTHING is went; wow its great to rent a cheap house too!!!
I will say that staying with my kids every single day and night, for the last 11 years has been good, seriously generally guys miss out on the life I've had. No money anymore, but great life with kids.
Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. I'm definately NOT selfish. I carry too much guilt to be. I guess I can blame my mother for that one. LOL. I know the type you're talking about. I see them all over. I try not to judge them and maybe I'm a BIT jealous of them because I feel like they don't have the worries that I do you know? They go off to work all day and dump their kids off then put them to bed only to do it the next day. They work and lose their kids' childhoods so they can live in a new house and drive an SUV. It's sickening. Hang in there yourself. There ARE good women out there. A single dad raising his kids alone is a pretty noble thing from most that I've seen and you will surely catch someone's eye. Soon I hope. :)
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No probs babybunny77, just me letting out some 'old' steam.
Thanks for your nice words. Mind you I probably should actually go out one day to actually find someone, oh well this is not about me anyway.
Stick in there, for your kids sake. I've seen too many tears and tantrums and deep down sadness from children without their Mom. Strangely they NEVER give up hope, which makes it even more sad! Holly shit, I'm going now.. (I hate thinking about it)