Is it normal that i can't seem to fall in love?

Everyone I know has. My father has always been asking me throughout high school if I have a girlfriend or not yet, and I still don't have a crush on someone.

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Based on 18 votes (16 yes)
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  • ellnell

    I dont fall in love easily anymore either. I used to, now its difficult I need time and to know someone first.

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    • PleaseTalkToMe

      Same

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  • Mark92

    However maybe some day you will find someone, it is nothing to rush or be forced on. You know love when you actually fall in love.

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  • MrToxic

    Not everyone does fall in love. It's entirely possible you'll grow feelings for someone someday however it's important you don't feel pressured by society or your loved ones. Some enjoy being single their whole lives.

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  • Duskwing

    You may not be falling in love, but there is always shared connection and companionship, and that is definitely a kind of love.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I'm not in any rush to fall in love with anyone other than Jesus, or my Siamese cat, and that's okay. You do you, baby. Don't be in a rush to conform to the herds of sheeple. There's no need for you to try to be someone other than yourself just to fit in, because it's not worth it, and will only confuse, and frustrate you.

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  • PleaseTalkToMe

    It's not worth it when humans feelings are ever so changing! I fell for someone in my teens and she chose a crack head when I was her best friend!! Its fuking painful plus I felt she just used me

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  • Kool_owl

    Most people do not fall in love in high school it's more of a crush or puppy love .
    Not sure why you're dad is pushing you to fall in love as love will come when you meet the right person .
    Only fools rush in .

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  • freelarking

    Most people don't find love until after their first mid-life crisis. Stop putting pressure on yourself.

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  • santega

    this is normal, people are different from each other and some just simply don't like having relationships, and there is no problem with that, be yourself and you will attract friends who accept you as you are.

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  • Mark92

    Love is painful, you are lucky.

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    • santega

      I agree

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      • Mark92

        I last found true love at college, we never broke up, she was a transfer, we separated because she had to go back, and decided a long distant relation won't work. I have lost contact with her and hope she has found a better man than me in her country. Ever since then its only been er.. short term relation, I am human and have needs, but have never fallen in love again, and am happy with it.

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        • santega

          good that you are happy like that, is what matters

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