Is it normal that i can't see myself in a relationship?

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I'm currently suffering with HOCD ( Homosexual Obsessive Compulsive Disorder ) and recently I have been questioning and seeing if I could handle being in a relationship with a guy (to see if I am gay) or seeing if I can imagine myself being in a relationship with a girl, and I can't do either, I can't picture myself in a relationship with a guy or a girl.
baring in mind that I have never been in a relationship, which might be why I can't picture myself in one.

Is this normal? has anyone else ever been like this?

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  • noid
    10 years ago | pl

    HOCD sounds made up to me

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  • meh11277
    6 years ago | pl

    I can't imagine myself in a relation as well. All it's seems so unrealistic and even disgusting. Some guys asked me on a date but I refused because I can't do it. I'm awkward and I'm afraid of being left. All my friends started to force me to go on dates but this makes me sick. I find guys atractive but I don't want a romantic relation, I just want to be just like other friendship .I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me and I can't understand. I wish I could find someone who understands me.

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  • tadabrown
    7 years ago | pl

    Total troll. Total bullshit. But pretty convincing. My question here, should this turn out to in fact true, is: is this catchy? :-( I'm going to google HOCD right now. Be back in a few to let you all know if this OP is fucking with us. Stay tuned.

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  • Maya05
    10 years ago | pl

    Relationships aren't for everyone. If you don't want to be in one don't force yourself into one. And don't let others pressure you into a relationship if you don't feel comfortable in one. A lot of people can't seem to understand that not everyone wants a relationship.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago | pl

    Is HOCD a real thing? lol

    Like Bifa015 said, you may be asexual if you have no real desire for either gender... or it might just be your lack of relationship so far :)

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  • Bifa015
    10 years ago | pl

    Do you have any SEXUAL desire at all? Or is it that you just cant see yourself being in a relationship? Because you may be a-Sexual.. Also, do you consider yourself a confident person? Because if not your subconscious may be telling you that you're not good enough for a relationship, or "no one will want to be in one with me" All in all, It is normal-ish.. You just may of not found the right person yet. Don't close yourself off.

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