Is it normal That I Can't Help But Wish My Boyfriend Was Like My Ex?

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  • Like the other post. I cant see why he would not want to give you a massage or rub down if he knows you like it. Even if he thinks he is not good at it, he could TRY and learn how to do it with time. I mean, if I liked massages and my significant other refused to do it, it would bother me. Thinking about your ex when it comes to this IS normal, because when you want a massage or a rub down and your boyfriend refuses to do it, it is natural that your mind would reflect back on the times when you used to get them. Again, I dont see why he wouldnt make an effort to at least TRY if you have articulated that you like massages and rub downs.

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    • Thats how I feel, I mean its not like I'm asking he to do something crazy kinky that he isn't comfortable with. I have brought it up several times, and then he just awkwardly pats my back and thats it.

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