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Alright so I always try to hook up with girls but not like a one night stand kind of thing. I get to know them. I invite them to do things. I call and text them. I do get along with them and I don't act like an asshole. So I was wondering am I being to nice or making them think I'm just a friend or taking to long or what? Is this normal?
"I" found, they might make the first move. Well, in the 12 times i done that, they made the first move 7 times, not the best % but its some percentage at least. 3 times i had to make the move, 1 time it was friends, but i could tell with her. You might go to the dream relationship of "f**kbuddies" its no easy feat though. You will tell if they are into you anyway.
Look on the internet for signs a girl likes you, its pretty obvious, but i cba to explain all the ways. If your utterly, utterly, unsure. Watch a kinky film with a fair doosey of nudity in it. Or a COMPLETELY TERRIBLE FILM, a film so bad that when you invite them over to watch it, they know its so bad that you dont want to watch a film. Ive never had a girlfriend, i just bang them sometimes. But after you do it, ask them for breakfast or dinner or something. If they say no, ask if its a one time thing, if they say yes, just go okay, then, see you monday or something i dunno. But usually if you do it once they cant resist some more man meat, usually no matter how bad you perform.
It's a first impression thing: after five seconds, most girls will think either "friend" or "hmmmm....." Afterwards, it is extremely hard to make the switch from friend to potential love interest. From consulting my friends, we realized that there are a few pointers to be classified as humm-worthy...
-posture&confidence: can't stress this enough! Some body language dude told me that sometimes it helps for guys if they imagine what they'd like to do with a pretty girl - it subconciously puts them in "hunting" mood and makes them more attractive. If you're not being too creepy about it, that is...
-looking wanted: if it looks like other girls want you, you will be wanted. if you are not really wanted, just try to go for the illusion of being wanted. this might require a little lies + acting but... oh well ^_^''
I don't want to write a too long reply so that's it for now! xoxo
u cant be too nice to them. i think the term being an asshole to the girl came from sum1 who likes this person but is angry dat they do and is scared of rejection. girls notice this usually and its normal. being too nice is good if ur just a friend. i know this cuz im too nice also
Haha I'm sorta in the same boat. I wanna hook up with girls but I don't wanna shall I say...dip in something dirty... So I rather talk as friends and see what's going on. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't. Depends who the girl is. But it is how I met a f-buddy I had about 2 Years back.
same boat bro, the trick is to make them want you. If your always around for them at their every beck and call then that's how you get stuck in "friend zone". You really cant be too friendly, you have to be the confident one and not be smitten by their beauty. In today's dating world, the nice guy only matters when they want to get serious. If you wanna hook up, you gotta be a bit of a jerk. Try different things and see how it goes.