Is it normal that I can't get a girlfriend?

Regardless of what a lot of people (ItDuz) want to say, girls are not seeking assholes. I know there are girls who do, but those are the ones with low self esteem and no respect for themselves, and any guy who doesn't realize that, obviously doesn't understand girls (probably hasn't had great luck with them either). And guys, I beg you not to try to play the asshole, bad-boy role, because it really isn't going to get you a good girl. Trust me.

Anywho, myself being a female, I can tell you that any guy who thinks he can be an asshole towards me will be shot in his throat, and I'd feel good about myself from the time I pulled the trigger all the way to the prison cell, that being said, I like guys who are kind, confident, and has a good head on his shoulders. Most girls do. The fact that you feel like you can't get a girl (since you're leaving this post) shows me that you don't have much confidence in yourself, and that shows. We females like guys who believe in themselves, not to say that we want someone who is big headed, but we definatly like guys with high self esteem and a lot of confidence. Have you tried talking to a girl you find attractive? Ask her out. You know, all girls think differently, so just because one girl doesn't like you doesn't mean another won't. Are you shy at all? Try to be more outgoing, if so. I know I like guys that make me and aren't afraid to be the center of attention, and don't be afraid to flirt a little too. I mean, you don't have to come off as a complete perve, but a little bit of flirting never hurts. You also say you like athletics, well, try talking to the cheerleaders or some other girls that you see in the gym a lot. 9 times out of 10 the girl who likes you is going to be interested in the same stuff you are. I know I always find myself attracted to the artistic and unique types, as I am artistic and unique myself. I'm sure you can get a girl, and there's no doubt in my mind that there's a few girls who are crushing on you right now. Remember, we get nervous around you guys too. Like a said, just have confidence in yourself, and don't listen to what other guys say because they don't understand the minds of females any more than you do. This is coming from a female herself, and I know you have what it takes to get a girl:)