Normal? Yes. Selfish? Very! Don't you care at all about your mom's happiness? If she's obviously not in love with your dad, she shouldn't be forced to spend the rest of her life with him and be miserable just so you can be happy. Hopefully one day you'll learn that life isn't all about you and you'll get over it and move on. She'll always be your mother, and you should be glad that she was a good one as you said in your question.
My mother was addicted to my dads second hand tobacco smoke , she would climb the walls for a fix and she didnt know why. she went nuts and picked out one child to beat horrifically to calm her nerves as it released endorphin's during the torture. she trusted i would tell know one because i could not do it. some times i had to be stitched up and would make up stories how i hurt myself. i have scars some are 55 years old. if i can forgive that you can forgive anything. none of my brothers know anything and i have no plans on telling them after she passes in just a few years. i only pray she has repented for herself. writing about it helps me. and it helps me understand myself , my life , and why things are they way they are. i would say to you, make her your best friend and enjoy the good things she has to offer, then when you are an independent adult , make your dad the most important person in your life. you can have it all.
Is it normal that I can't "forgive" my mother?
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Normal? Yes. Selfish? Very! Don't you care at all about your mom's happiness? If she's obviously not in love with your dad, she shouldn't be forced to spend the rest of her life with him and be miserable just so you can be happy. Hopefully one day you'll learn that life isn't all about you and you'll get over it and move on. She'll always be your mother, and you should be glad that she was a good one as you said in your question.
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My mother was addicted to my dads second hand tobacco smoke , she would climb the walls for a fix and she didnt know why. she went nuts and picked out one child to beat horrifically to calm her nerves as it released endorphin's during the torture. she trusted i would tell know one because i could not do it. some times i had to be stitched up and would make up stories how i hurt myself. i have scars some are 55 years old. if i can forgive that you can forgive anything. none of my brothers know anything and i have no plans on telling them after she passes in just a few years. i only pray she has repented for herself. writing about it helps me. and it helps me understand myself , my life , and why things are they way they are. i would say to you, make her your best friend and enjoy the good things she has to offer, then when you are an independent adult , make your dad the most important person in your life. you can have it all.