Is it normal that i can't flirt?

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I have no idea how to flirt! I think I may be prude, I'm scared to have a real boyfriend. If he holds my hand, will I start to sweat? If he kisses me how do I kiss him?
Thank GOD for this site.
Does this make me prude? I would love to have a guy wrap is arms around my waste, hold my hand, and kiss me all day. But I don't know how to do that all back to him? o.o HELP?

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago | pl

    Wrap his arms around your "waste"? Now that's just foul! Haha...your waist would be more appropriate. Don't stress...you'll be ok.

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    • readit
      13 years ago

      o.o OH MY GOD! I didn't notice that. I know it's waist.(x
      I can't stop laughing that's so messed up.

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    • misinformant
      13 years ago

      hey you know some people are into that

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      • 12eahtsdrateri
        8 years ago

        two girls on cup need I say more eww I think I am scared from that videos.

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89
    13 years ago

    LOL this post is so sweet, you need to just go with the floooowwww and stop worrying about it! Kisses come so naturally, as soon as someone kisses you you kinda know what to do if that makes sense. And when you do get into a relationship you will want to kiss him and hug him and let him wrap him arms around your "waste", seriously don't worry about it =)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I was told when I talk to people that I flirt even though I dont mean to.

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    Lmfaowfdafos Randomjelly! That was gold, I totally read that as "waist" I had to double check

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  • Sweetz
    13 years ago

    Mine comes naturally :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    nah you're not a prude. You just haven't found the guy yet.

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  • dalmationUntoyourSoul
    12 years ago

    your good. i actually didn't do most of that stuff until i was in college. it does come naturally to most people, and will come to you in time. may i suggest looking around, finding a somewhat shy boy that you find interesting or attractive, and take the initiative. they're probably waiting for someone to make a move, and like regina spektor says, "if you kiss someone, then both of you get practice"

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  • spacemonkeys21
    13 years ago

    your super cute haha, dont even stress its true it all comes natural if ur doing it with a guy that really cares about u and u care about him and comfy with him. I didnt date any young girls but i did once she was 14 i was 16 first young girl in my life and she didnt know nothing but it was fun teaching her, if he really likes u he'l spend the time to teach u and be patient with it , take it eas

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    Hahaha i totally read "waist". You're cute, take it easy.

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  • mumbum
    13 years ago

    You must do massive poos!!! Yes... You are normal :)

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  • Bebopulation3
    12 years ago

    You wrote waist like poo

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  • thealyssajade
    12 years ago

    yeah its normal but it sucks lol
    i dont have a problem w/ it tho :}

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  • HecateAlVanne
    12 years ago

    I have no idea how to flirt, but according to my friends I flirt a lot. No Logic there. Anyway just use your instincts.

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  • Spin
    12 years ago

    Gaaah I feel the same way as you! It makes me afraid to get into a relationship... I can't imagine myself getting so intimate with someone else!

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  • purplemonkeys
    13 years ago

    I had a ex like tht

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  • curiousJulie
    13 years ago

    When you meet the right guy it will just happen - trust me. x

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  • What'sMyName?
    13 years ago

    xD randomjelly

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  • HSVWHO
    13 years ago

    Nawww

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    :-D

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  • CreativeThinker
    13 years ago

    If u can't flirt u donot qualify to live on planet earth.....Leave our planet ASAP....Asshole!

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    • readit
      13 years ago

      Ummm. Yeah wow. Your comment was really bad so why don't you leave the planet? BECAUSE you sound like a low life, self centered, BITCH ... Who calls me an ASSHOLE over a computer.
      And yes I know I called you a bitch.
      Build and bridge and get the fuck over it.
      K..
      Cool bye.

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    • 12eahtsdrateri
      8 years ago

      flirting is hard so try and se it from their point of view.

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