It's not about knowing where they are. It's about changing something about yourself. Like attracts like. You have been conditioned to attract these types of guys for whatever reason. Sometimes we subconsciously feel like we deserve someone who's not good to us. Sometimes, it's related to family issues or trauma in the past. You need to try to identify the cause of the issue. Then you can proceed to take appropriate action to correct the problem and change. I attract a lot of damaged women and I think it's because I'm such a sympathetic and understanding person that that's what these types of women need. So I know that I need to actually be less understanding and sympathetic. I'm the guy who subconsciously tries to fix my partners and I need to realize that I can't fix nor should I be taking on that responsibility. See where I'm getting at here?
Is it normal that I can't find these so-called good guys?
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It's not about knowing where they are. It's about changing something about yourself. Like attracts like. You have been conditioned to attract these types of guys for whatever reason. Sometimes we subconsciously feel like we deserve someone who's not good to us. Sometimes, it's related to family issues or trauma in the past. You need to try to identify the cause of the issue. Then you can proceed to take appropriate action to correct the problem and change. I attract a lot of damaged women and I think it's because I'm such a sympathetic and understanding person that that's what these types of women need. So I know that I need to actually be less understanding and sympathetic. I'm the guy who subconsciously tries to fix my partners and I need to realize that I can't fix nor should I be taking on that responsibility. See where I'm getting at here?