I checked the friendzone - and that's where they all were! I just went through an event with someone I'd friendzoned & knew was interested but never took seriously. He asked me why I put up with mistreatment from exes in the past, & I thought about it. I imagined all the events of the night if they had come from an imaginary "ideally attractive" guy, & it played out like a fairy tale. I reran some events w/exes & imagined the same scenarios if they were less physically attractive. & EVERYTHING changed. I highly recommend this for perspective.
Is it normal that I can't find these so-called good guys?
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I checked the friendzone - and that's where they all were! I just went through an event with someone I'd friendzoned & knew was interested but never took seriously. He asked me why I put up with mistreatment from exes in the past, & I thought about it. I imagined all the events of the night if they had come from an imaginary "ideally attractive" guy, & it played out like a fairy tale. I reran some events w/exes & imagined the same scenarios if they were less physically attractive. & EVERYTHING changed. I highly recommend this for perspective.