It's because love isn't always fair, and sometimes there's nothing you can do about it. Guys and girls aren't always attracted to the partners who would be best for them. The people you like most won't always like you and there's not always anything you can do about it. Love isn't something that can be found tactically. There's no point trying to make sense of it.
Good partners aren't in the woodwork waiting to come out at the slightest hint of a good match. If they're half intelligent they'll know that you have to try a relationship with someone to know how good it will be. They're just like you, roaming the landscape of relationships and running into people who are and aren't the right fit for them.
The moral is: if you want to find a good partner, have as many as you can and you'll eventually run into one who is right for you. Be prepared to get hurt, and be prepared to find lots of people who aren't right for you.
Is it normal that I can't find these so-called good guys?
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It's because love isn't always fair, and sometimes there's nothing you can do about it. Guys and girls aren't always attracted to the partners who would be best for them. The people you like most won't always like you and there's not always anything you can do about it. Love isn't something that can be found tactically. There's no point trying to make sense of it.
Good partners aren't in the woodwork waiting to come out at the slightest hint of a good match. If they're half intelligent they'll know that you have to try a relationship with someone to know how good it will be. They're just like you, roaming the landscape of relationships and running into people who are and aren't the right fit for them.
The moral is: if you want to find a good partner, have as many as you can and you'll eventually run into one who is right for you. Be prepared to get hurt, and be prepared to find lots of people who aren't right for you.