Is it normal that I can't find these so-called good guys?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago | pl

    Honestly, I think it would serve you well to take a break from looking for "Mr. Right" and concentrate on yourself. Maybe have a few sessions with a therapist and or checkout the twelve step program known as Codependents Anonymous. Try to concentrate on self discovery and improvement. I suspect this problem this goes much deeper than you're aware.

    http://www.coda.org/

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    • Hayze
      9 years ago | pl

      That is lovely advice. I am also trying to focus on my life instead of hoping to hard to meet a suitable mate. Maybe he will turn up when I least expect it.

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago | pl

        Right on! I figure it's better to be alone than with the wrong person. Also, until I fix my issues I'll mostly likely meet nothing but other people who are messed up and carrying too much baggage. If I don't work on myself I won't be able to recognize a good mate even if he fell out of the sky and landed on my head.

        I'm pretty sure lots of men and women have the same issues but don't want to stop playing the victim and take a look at their part in life.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago | pl

      That is the best advice I've heard in a long time. Thank you.

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