They probably are everywhere, but you're just not seeing them because you're not attracted to them.
It's a weird dilemma because you want to be with someone that is "good" for you etc.
But what if those types of people just don't do it for you?
It could also be that on some level your ego wants to identify you as being 'the girl who is always getting screwed over in relationships' and be a victim to the idea that there are no good men out there; destined to repeat this pattern over and over. There might be a part of you that likes the abuse.
I'm sorry I haven't got a practical answer for you.
Be a good person yourself and you'll probably attract like.
Is it normal that I can't find these so-called good guys?
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They probably are everywhere, but you're just not seeing them because you're not attracted to them.
It's a weird dilemma because you want to be with someone that is "good" for you etc.
But what if those types of people just don't do it for you?
It could also be that on some level your ego wants to identify you as being 'the girl who is always getting screwed over in relationships' and be a victim to the idea that there are no good men out there; destined to repeat this pattern over and over. There might be a part of you that likes the abuse.
I'm sorry I haven't got a practical answer for you.
Be a good person yourself and you'll probably attract like.