Is it normal that i can't find a group of friends?

Stop comparing yourself to other people. That's never a good thing. But, if you still want to, you know loads of people who are part of only one circle while you have friends in many circles. You win. If you really need to win at something like this.

Being in a group looks nice on the outside but is stressful on the inside. We spend most of our lives trying to fit in but once we do we want out. I feel like groups have so much drama and you can't trust anyone. But that's not always the case. You can also get some random friends together and make your own group if it means that much to you. Or if a friend of yours is hanging out with other people ask if you can come and join them. A lot of the times we think that people don't like us because they don't ask to hang out. Trust me they are oblivious. Let them know and they will be more concious to invite you. Try to also work on loving yourself for who you are. Because most of the time in these situations we are the one's that are hurting ourselves.

Is it normal for moderators to be assholes?
Yeah.It is.Normal.Indeed.

I'm the same. I have friends but they're all have othr friends that i don't know. I get nervous around peopke I don't know and its horrible

I know exactly how you feel. I have a few different good friends, but each of them has their own circles that I'm not really a part of. It's frustrating.

join a sports team or a club or something. bam. instant group of friends.