Is it normal that i can't cry?

A few weeks ago, I was in a situation where I believed nobody loved me, my life sucked, and other equally disproportionate reactions. I was feeling really sad, like, sadder than I had been in months. I remember reading somewhere that in the process of crying, your brain releases a chemical that makes you feel better, which is why you cry when you're sad. So when I got home, I stopped holding back tears, which is what I had been doing for months. (I take pride in my perpetual poker face) but when I stopped holding back the tears, no tears came. I tried forcing expressions, I tried making myself sadder, I even tried sniffing a vial of chopped onion I had in my cabinet to start the tears flowing. Once my eyes stopped stinging, the tears stopped. I had forgotten how to cry.

I remember crying in the past, usually because of pain or temper, I even remember faking emotional anguish to convince my parents to buy me that new toy. As I got older, I gradually stopped crying, believing it to be undignified. By the time I tried again, discussed above, it had been years since I last shed a tear, not counting watery eyes.

I've never heard of this from anyone else, and can't find an explanation. So, IIN?

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Based on 39 votes (25 yes)
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  • DhGlory

    I've lost the ability to cry, when a boy from my year committed suicide everyone was crying, but I literally couldn't, I was sad but nothing came. I felt so awkward I went home, that was three years ago and I still haven't cried since that :/

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  • I can't either :(

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  • wreckd

    You should watch the movie, The Holiday. It might not be what you're looking for. It's a chik flik but you can relate.

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  • alwaysremains93

    I think it's pretty normal. Maybe a really traumatic experience like somebody's death will change that and trigger something in your brain to change things god forbid it. Don't linger on that thought too much though. Just be glad you're okay.

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  • takeiteasy12

    Crying is undignefied? Crying is a natural Human emotion... But that is wierd not being able to cry....

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  • You havent heard it from anyone else? Alot of people have this, I for one havent cried since I was a child.

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