I know why. Because youve never been in a relationship with a guy who treats you like shit. Youre bored of the nice guys because its always the same crap and besides feeding your ego it does nothing for you and doesnt keep you interested. You dont have to work for what you want and things you get without trying are hard to appreciate. Im not trying to be mean so im sorry if it sounds that way, im just talking from experience. If you dont have to work for a guy and get treated amazingly well without trying at all its boring. In my first realtionship i was with the guy for 4 years and he treated me like absolute garbage. I tried so hard for him and i was SO happy when he would do so much as send me a text or see me on lunch (we went to the same school but i hardly ever saw him). I worked my ass off like an idiot but every small reward seemed satisfying. The next guy i dated for 2 years and he treated me like a goddess. I was so perfect to him in every way and he never said no to me.... And guess what? I got so freaking bored. There was literally nothing i could do to turn him off. I would try to see what would happen and even if i did/said somwthing gross he would just laugh and tell me how funny i am. I couldnt take that crap it was so dull! I could never make a mistake, we never had arguments, nothing to get my heart racing, i never had to think of new ways to please him because he was happy with everything. I honestly started being a bitch to see if i could get any reaction out of him, but nothing. Of course thats boring and didnt last. My third boyfriend ive been with for 2 years now an ironically he got me by completely ignoring me. We worked together and had a one night stand type thing once and it was amazing. After that for about 6 months he made excuses not to see me and not to talk to me it drove me nuts! We would meet occasionally when he couldnt ignore me anymore and i would spend everyday with the phone in my hand just waiting for him to text me. I had to try so hard to get him to talk to me/see me. Now he tells me he did that all on purpose because he could tell that i liked the chase, and he was right. Bottom line is that youre bored because you get everything without trying. If you ever find a guy you cant have or one that makes you work for it you will see the difference. You just havent met that person yet who will sweep you of your feet and mind-fuck you, in a good way of course.
I think you and I are very similar! The boyfriends that I have had sound exactly like your second ones, and in fact we had the same pattern of behavior. I'm not normally some sort of bitchy freak but honestly there was no excitement. I'm a fan of the chase more too!
Is it normal that I can't be pleased?
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I know why. Because youve never been in a relationship with a guy who treats you like shit. Youre bored of the nice guys because its always the same crap and besides feeding your ego it does nothing for you and doesnt keep you interested. You dont have to work for what you want and things you get without trying are hard to appreciate. Im not trying to be mean so im sorry if it sounds that way, im just talking from experience. If you dont have to work for a guy and get treated amazingly well without trying at all its boring. In my first realtionship i was with the guy for 4 years and he treated me like absolute garbage. I tried so hard for him and i was SO happy when he would do so much as send me a text or see me on lunch (we went to the same school but i hardly ever saw him). I worked my ass off like an idiot but every small reward seemed satisfying. The next guy i dated for 2 years and he treated me like a goddess. I was so perfect to him in every way and he never said no to me.... And guess what? I got so freaking bored. There was literally nothing i could do to turn him off. I would try to see what would happen and even if i did/said somwthing gross he would just laugh and tell me how funny i am. I couldnt take that crap it was so dull! I could never make a mistake, we never had arguments, nothing to get my heart racing, i never had to think of new ways to please him because he was happy with everything. I honestly started being a bitch to see if i could get any reaction out of him, but nothing. Of course thats boring and didnt last. My third boyfriend ive been with for 2 years now an ironically he got me by completely ignoring me. We worked together and had a one night stand type thing once and it was amazing. After that for about 6 months he made excuses not to see me and not to talk to me it drove me nuts! We would meet occasionally when he couldnt ignore me anymore and i would spend everyday with the phone in my hand just waiting for him to text me. I had to try so hard to get him to talk to me/see me. Now he tells me he did that all on purpose because he could tell that i liked the chase, and he was right. Bottom line is that youre bored because you get everything without trying. If you ever find a guy you cant have or one that makes you work for it you will see the difference. You just havent met that person yet who will sweep you of your feet and mind-fuck you, in a good way of course.
Good luck to you
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your story really helps me thanks =].
but out of curiosity are u single now??.
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Aww im glad. :) and no im not, im with guy #3 currently. :) why do you ask?
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No reason just asking
I think you and I are very similar! The boyfriends that I have had sound exactly like your second ones, and in fact we had the same pattern of behavior. I'm not normally some sort of bitchy freak but honestly there was no excitement. I'm a fan of the chase more too!