Is it normal that I can't be mean to her?

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  • Saycheese
    11 years ago | pl

    Like this answer.

    I had a friend like that. I know this is kind of bad but I just don't talk to her anymore because she drained me. She constantly complained to me and what I told her finally was that she needed to get out more... she doesn't ever get out. She turned around saying I have too much to do I can't. My thoughts: "Yep working at Arby's is too much and me going to college is nothing." She hasn't bothered to call me since... I was rather nice about it too. But whatever she was way too immature for her age. As I grew older the more I realized that. She's still in the highschool world while I'm in the adult world.

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    • Frosties
      11 years ago | pl

      I seem to be a magnet for people like that, simply because I'm often nice. But there's a difference between being nice and genuinely wanting to hear people moan all day. People like your ex-friend don't seem to spot that.

      Just because I'm listening without complaint, doesn't mean I'm enjoying someone sucking the life out of me!

      Sounds like you've had a lucky escape, by the way.

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      • Saycheese
        11 years ago | pl

        Thanks. And I agree for sure.

        If she would ever care to see how I'm doing she'll call, but I don't see that happening anytime soon.

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