Is it normal that i can not make lasting relationships?

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I've always been the loner type. I've never had many friends, and he ones that I have had I ended up hating a short time later. I meet people, and I like them, but come a few months down the road I can't stand them. I prefer to be alone. The sound of people, especially people interracting, makes me want to rip my ears out of my head. I hate the way people smell, dress, talk and act. I love animals and plants, down to the smallest crawling ant, which I would never harm. But I can not make lasting or deep relationships with people because they make me sick to my stomach. I am lonely, but not really depressed or angry. I'd almost marry a tree if it was legal. I sometimes fantasize about turning into a plant or a wolf. To run away from people. Why? I cant understand..

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  • Echoes
    13 years ago

    You need some professional help. There's nothing wrong in talking to a therapist. This kind of extreme hatred has a root, so you need to find it.

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  • rapideye89
    13 years ago

    Different people, different souls. No your not a robot, that dick up there should shut his mouth. I'm the same way. The truth is you can't force people to enjoy your presence. If they don't want to be around you, then you're not meant to be friends, and they can go **** themselves for judging you so quickly.

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  • Laubotje
    13 years ago

    People just suck ass dude... but I hope you'll find a good partner just like you!:) Everything will turn out right, believe me.

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  • a_blonde_paradox
    13 years ago

    I've never really had luck in keeping lasting relationships, but I will tell you that you probably havent found someone that interests you enough to want to keep around for longer than a few weeks or months (or however long your relationships tend to be)

    As for your extreme dislike for people, their smell, actions, speech etc... that's something you're going to have to figure out on your own. It might not be them, it might very well be yourself. Before you go finding flaws about other people, look at yourself first and try to find out *why* you feel this way.

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  • fizzbitchandgun
    13 years ago

    I don't think it's normal, but it's definitely fixable. You just need a different perspective on life and the human race in general, and it's up to you to work out how to get it.

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  • Angryblackguy
    13 years ago

    You are a robot

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