Is it normal that i can look at a woman and love her looks but?

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If her personality is not good and she is rude, crude and nasty I am just totally turned off her instantly like someone flicking a light switch. I think this comes from meeting some rude and crude women in my past. I know not all women are this way of course and some men are also rude and crude to women but not all men are that way either. I am just talking about the women that are rude and crude.

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  • KiarLhagus
    6 years ago

    People who continue to be attracted to someone after finding things they don't like about their personality bother me. It says volumes about their values and way of thinking. You're better than normal, you're sane.

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  • ThatGuyWhoDoesThings
    6 years ago

    Pretty sure it's called standards.

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  • bubsy
    6 years ago

    Sure, but be careful that you aren't putting them so high on a pedestal that they can only fail your expectations. If you feel betrayed and bitter--that is exactly what you are doing.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      After how I have had some women treat me in my past If a woman does something like that now I tend to never truly forgive her. It becomes a black mark by her name for the rest of her life that no matter what she does will never be able to truly get rid of. Please don't judge me I can't help it.

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      • bubsy
        6 years ago

        Understand that your reaction is too severe to come from simple disappointment. Google "No More Mr. Nice Guy pdf" and click the first link. You'll get a healthier perspective about women afterwards.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          I do understand women now but I get the feeling that book is just focused on blaming men for everything is that true?

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          • bubsy
            6 years ago

            Don't trust your feelings, because there are great insights in there that help men. The book doesn't blame men, but helps them understand why they feel the way they do.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              6 years ago

              Ok right thanks. I just thought it would be another thing in society full of misandry and a man blaming thing that is all. The thing is there was something a guy did today that I did not like and now I feel I also don't like his girlfriend/wife also.

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  • SmokeEverything
    6 years ago

    It's totally normal to not like people who aren't nice. If somebody isn't a nice person I could really give a crap what they look like.

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  • CreamPuffs
    6 years ago

    You're completely normal. No question about it.

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  • yesnomaybeso
    6 years ago

    It's a decent thing! :) xx

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  • WhiteTile
    6 years ago

    Well than just admire from afar, I don't see the problem

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  • dickwashington
    6 years ago

    i hate girls that are quiet and boring

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  • WhiteTile
    6 years ago

    I do it too I'm like fuck this dude loven me for my look's I'm act like shit get rid of his nasty ass

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  • WhiteTile
    6 years ago

    Really all I can say is if your putting on a fake ass mask and trying to fuck any ways just for her looks your a bigger peaice of shit and probably the type of guy that's the reason for her behavior she probably like fuck off you just like me for my looks ya can fack off. Or she just ain't interested and trying to get you to fuck off.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Well then it is a good thing that I am not trying to do that then isn't it. Also I was not only talking about random women with this post either.

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      • WhiteTile
        6 years ago

        Well so the fuck what? Just be friends or if you're too good fuck off

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