I'm not trying to be condescending or force people to believe in the same thing I do, get themselves sterilized and adopt a child or more. I'm just sharing how I feel about the matter.
Even from a moral standpoint, I still disagree with you. What are you saying, that if a child is waiting in line than my potential child has less moral significance? Please, tell me about this queue of descending moral value that you have contrived.
Showing a child that I love and respect them is probably the greatest gift that I hope to one day give; to show a *person* care and *love*. It doesn't matter who it is. Are you saying that if a child is unwanted then he/she is more capable of happiness and thus more deserving of attention? If for some reason I can only have and bring happiness to one child, I will choose to do so biologically, because I do not believe that love from another human being is something that one has to wait in line for.
"Love" is not really an issue of morality. If I told you that this guy I know has no friends, even his family hates him, would you drop everything and be his best friend just because nobody else will? Its not as though you actually have feelings for him as an individual. Is that really being a friend?
Is it normal that I believe that having children is wrong?
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I'm not trying to be condescending or force people to believe in the same thing I do, get themselves sterilized and adopt a child or more. I'm just sharing how I feel about the matter.
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Even from a moral standpoint, I still disagree with you. What are you saying, that if a child is waiting in line than my potential child has less moral significance? Please, tell me about this queue of descending moral value that you have contrived.
Showing a child that I love and respect them is probably the greatest gift that I hope to one day give; to show a *person* care and *love*. It doesn't matter who it is. Are you saying that if a child is unwanted then he/she is more capable of happiness and thus more deserving of attention? If for some reason I can only have and bring happiness to one child, I will choose to do so biologically, because I do not believe that love from another human being is something that one has to wait in line for.
"Love" is not really an issue of morality. If I told you that this guy I know has no friends, even his family hates him, would you drop everything and be his best friend just because nobody else will? Its not as though you actually have feelings for him as an individual. Is that really being a friend?
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I don't think I'm saying any of that. I'm just saying that it's more ethical and rational to adopt rather than have birthkids.
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I think just said why its not.