I respect your opinion, but adoption really is a sweet spot for me. Adoption doesn't necessarily mean the child is going to be put in the system. My birth parents had to jump through hoops to adopt me, and that's the case with a lot of adoptive parents. The people who adopt WANT kids, for the most part. I think the standards need to change though...they check for financial stability and what-not, but they don't check so much for desire and ability to give the child an emotionally stable home.
I don't mean any offense to you, seriously, I just get very defensive when it seems that someone is knocking adoption.
IIN that I believe that Abortion is more humane than giving babies up
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I respect your opinion, but adoption really is a sweet spot for me. Adoption doesn't necessarily mean the child is going to be put in the system. My birth parents had to jump through hoops to adopt me, and that's the case with a lot of adoptive parents. The people who adopt WANT kids, for the most part. I think the standards need to change though...they check for financial stability and what-not, but they don't check so much for desire and ability to give the child an emotionally stable home.
I don't mean any offense to you, seriously, I just get very defensive when it seems that someone is knocking adoption.