Oh shit. You are me. I mean, in kinda reverse: my father behaved JUST LIKE THAT when I was a child/teen and I'm a guy (I take it you're a gal).<BR>I can't like my father. All I can do is to dispassionately bear his presence (now that he's not violent anymore). And guess what: WHY SHOULD I LIKE HIM???? Same goes to you. Why would you need to like your mother? By what you said, she behaves like a cunt. (Sorry, I actually say this thinking of my father, but by what you said your mother behaves in the shittiest way possible and you should KNOW it, realize it and deal with the truth - you have to like people who are WORTHY of being liked/loved, and your mother is *definitely* NOT worthy).
Is it normal that I am unable to love my mother?
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Oh shit. You are me. I mean, in kinda reverse: my father behaved JUST LIKE THAT when I was a child/teen and I'm a guy (I take it you're a gal).<BR>I can't like my father. All I can do is to dispassionately bear his presence (now that he's not violent anymore). And guess what: WHY SHOULD I LIKE HIM???? Same goes to you. Why would you need to like your mother? By what you said, she behaves like a cunt. (Sorry, I actually say this thinking of my father, but by what you said your mother behaves in the shittiest way possible and you should KNOW it, realize it and deal with the truth - you have to like people who are WORTHY of being liked/loved, and your mother is *definitely* NOT worthy).