If you're not comfortable with your own vagina, then you're too young to be getting laid in the first place.
Yes that might hurt your ego but it's the truth.
You need to take matters into your own hands and at your own pace. Have a nice bath, light some candles, play soft music... and just explore yourself.
If you cannot do this without shame, then you aren't ready for more.
And if you aren't ready then it's not going to be good. You cannot expect your partner to perform well when you yourself aren't comfortable with your own body.
You need to be comfortable enough to tell him exactly where you want to be touched and how.
IIN that i am SUPER nervous to have my boyfriend go down on me?
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If you're not comfortable with your own vagina, then you're too young to be getting laid in the first place.
Yes that might hurt your ego but it's the truth.
You need to take matters into your own hands and at your own pace. Have a nice bath, light some candles, play soft music... and just explore yourself.
If you cannot do this without shame, then you aren't ready for more.
And if you aren't ready then it's not going to be good. You cannot expect your partner to perform well when you yourself aren't comfortable with your own body.
You need to be comfortable enough to tell him exactly where you want to be touched and how.