WAIT. You don't ever compliment him or show affection?
...No wonder he behaved that way. If you love someone you need to show them, not just tell them. For a healthy relationship you need to satisfy each other's needs. (Within reason, nothing that makes one or both of you uncomfortable.) If you don't want to send him a dirty pic borrow his phone and take one. He'd love to see that surprise. Hell, take more than one. He WANTS to jerk off to you, you shut him out so he just resulted to asking a couple whores. Of course he is in the wrong, but you need to take some blame too.
If he doesn't feel like you are loving him, if he doesn't feel appreciated, he won't be happy. And if he's not happy he'll act out in an attempt to get your attention and notice what you're doing. It's an excuse for him to bring up what he doesn't want to admit.
I dunno, makes sense to me though. Sounds like you need to think more about your relationship and if you guys are really right for each other. Or at least openly discuss your needs together and get on the path to a healthy, lasting relationship.
Is it normal that I am still with my boyfriend after this?
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WAIT. You don't ever compliment him or show affection?
...No wonder he behaved that way. If you love someone you need to show them, not just tell them. For a healthy relationship you need to satisfy each other's needs. (Within reason, nothing that makes one or both of you uncomfortable.) If you don't want to send him a dirty pic borrow his phone and take one. He'd love to see that surprise. Hell, take more than one. He WANTS to jerk off to you, you shut him out so he just resulted to asking a couple whores. Of course he is in the wrong, but you need to take some blame too.
If he doesn't feel like you are loving him, if he doesn't feel appreciated, he won't be happy. And if he's not happy he'll act out in an attempt to get your attention and notice what you're doing. It's an excuse for him to bring up what he doesn't want to admit.
I dunno, makes sense to me though. Sounds like you need to think more about your relationship and if you guys are really right for each other. Or at least openly discuss your needs together and get on the path to a healthy, lasting relationship.