I'm like that. part of my college course involves work experience and there's a woman there I like. We've been talking for a bit but I wasn't going to try and get her number because I thought she was out of my leauge. A friend tried to convince me she wasn't and build my courage. I walked right up to her with the intention of getting her number and produced what i can only describe as a muffled gargle remenicent of the language of Cthulhu, cleared my throat and said that I was going on lunch break and i'd be back in a bit. I'm still cringing over it.
alright listen. this isn't the 50's anymore. and your 19! get to know her, flirt with her, transfer that sexual energy to her through body language and your words. be like, "hey you should come over and have a drink sometime, your boyfriend wont mind." and see where it goes from there. and you dont have to do that with one girl!!!!!!! life is about giving a fuck about the things you should and not give a fuck about the things you shouldn't maynne.
I think I may be single forever too haha it's a shame that confidence is such an attractive quality. I'm 20 and I've only had one relationship which was just fucked up, never had sex either, after I told the course i was a virgin (everyone was asking each other and i'm not a liar)a girl on the course said it was a shame she had a boyfriend cos she wanted to show me things and that i was handsome but she also said i wasn't fat so i think she was just trying to make me feel better about myself. (so sick of writing in replies to avoid wall text now. next 1'll be a min)
The annoying thing is that i'm really shy, at first. That combined with the fact that I have mild anxiety sometimes, don't like sports, like shopping for converse, dc's, plaid shirts ect always gets people telling me that i'm sensitive (or worse gay. not that there's anything wrong with gay people i just don't want to be a girl i like's gay friend). Which is great for a friend but not for a relationship. I don't even classify myself as sensitive before IIN i never talked about my feelings ect and i'm only a little bit more open now. I wish I had the confidence to well appear confident it would help
Is it normal that I am so shy about talking to girls
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I'm like that. part of my college course involves work experience and there's a woman there I like. We've been talking for a bit but I wasn't going to try and get her number because I thought she was out of my leauge. A friend tried to convince me she wasn't and build my courage. I walked right up to her with the intention of getting her number and produced what i can only describe as a muffled gargle remenicent of the language of Cthulhu, cleared my throat and said that I was going on lunch break and i'd be back in a bit. I'm still cringing over it.
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alright listen. this isn't the 50's anymore. and your 19! get to know her, flirt with her, transfer that sexual energy to her through body language and your words. be like, "hey you should come over and have a drink sometime, your boyfriend wont mind." and see where it goes from there. and you dont have to do that with one girl!!!!!!! life is about giving a fuck about the things you should and not give a fuck about the things you shouldn't maynne.
I think I may be single forever too haha it's a shame that confidence is such an attractive quality. I'm 20 and I've only had one relationship which was just fucked up, never had sex either, after I told the course i was a virgin (everyone was asking each other and i'm not a liar)a girl on the course said it was a shame she had a boyfriend cos she wanted to show me things and that i was handsome but she also said i wasn't fat so i think she was just trying to make me feel better about myself. (so sick of writing in replies to avoid wall text now. next 1'll be a min)
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Im a virgin too I think this just adds to my issues..
The annoying thing is that i'm really shy, at first. That combined with the fact that I have mild anxiety sometimes, don't like sports, like shopping for converse, dc's, plaid shirts ect always gets people telling me that i'm sensitive (or worse gay. not that there's anything wrong with gay people i just don't want to be a girl i like's gay friend). Which is great for a friend but not for a relationship. I don't even classify myself as sensitive before IIN i never talked about my feelings ect and i'm only a little bit more open now. I wish I had the confidence to well appear confident it would help