Is it normal that i am scared to kiss my boyfriend for the first time?

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So basically I am scared to have my first kiss because the guy I am dating is older than me and is ... Well ... Experienced, and I'm not, he is my first boyfriend, I'm not young either I'm 18, sad but true... But I'm worried he will think I'm a bad kisser... Any pointers? Tips? Help?!? ... Is this even normal to be this ... Scared? Nervous ? About this kind of thing?

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  • flutterhigh
    11 years ago | pl

    Give him a surprise reach-around, guys love that.

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  • tianabanana11
    11 years ago | pl

    Well the worst that could happen is he kisses you back......shit go for it suck his head off lol<--- this is sure to make him laugh creating a humourous environment leading to a playful evening or try a glass of wine over a comedy to calm the nerves.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    drina has some good ideas.

    also make sure you don't eat onions right before. kinda a mood killer right there >:-)

    enjoy the magic but ... don't fear that it's going to destroy you either. i mean it's not as if he's going to sprout demon horns and rip your face off if it's not perfect.

    cos no matter what... if the hearts are there, that's what matters most

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  • McHexanbaugh
    11 years ago | pl

    Guys don't care about how good you kiss, it's what happens later on in the relationship that matters, for that you should conduct research on porn sites and do what they do, but get hammered drunk first.

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  • LM89
    11 years ago | pl

    I wouldn't worry I'm sure you'll be far better than him even with all that 'experience' doesn't seem to make a difference they're all washing machines!

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago | pl

    Your putting way to much thought into this! Just kiss and keep practicing till your just great at it, it will only make him smile

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    Do not be afraid! Enjoy your first time the more you can! You will feel very nice! I am 16 and I have kissed my boyfriend at the age of 14.. It was the first time I felt like that! Trust me :)

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  • Budda
    11 years ago | pl

    im with flutterhigh on this one

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  • DrinaVonCheez
    11 years ago | pl

    Take your time. The longer you wait; the more amazing it is!
    And of course its normal to be nervous lol he will like it no matter what because its a kiss from you.

    I say wait till its a "hallmark moment," look him in the eyes, smile, then kiss him. Aim for the bottom lip! and grab him by his chin ;D

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    • Tehboss
      11 years ago | pl

      blah at waiting it aint more amazing.
      And she can actually be a bad kisser.
      and she should just relax...

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  • abominus566
    11 years ago | pl

    well, yes take your time. But i say experience in my opinion has nothing to do with it, since if you always have that on your mind and are scared or nervous then you will not do anything ever, saying that sometimes you have to swallow your fear and attempt to go in for the kill

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  • SoccerStud88
    11 years ago | pl

    if you suck at kissing he'll never talk to you again

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