I have to say that this one of the reasons I don't like flirting very much. Honestly, I prefer flirting with gay men over anyone else because it's safe and fun.
I don't like it when someone is all flirty with me and then I feel pressured to flirt back and when I do the person hits on me! I remember one particular instance where a guy at work flirted with me and I thought it was just in good fun. He wasn't ugly or I wouldn't have flirted with him at all and in fact he was attractive but I wasn't interested and he ended up smacking me on the ass. I probably should have went to human resources but it happened so fast and I basically told him not to ever touch me again or I would punch him in the face. Thank God he left me alone after that! What a creep!
I know what you mean. When guys straight up hit on me without knowing me first, it annoys me, specially because they usually seem desperate and it feels wrong. But when guys act friendly and respectful and I end up liking them, that's when I'm friendzoned, so I can't ever win. Maybe I've got an unrealistic view on romance. :/
Is it normal that I am rejected by people who flirt with me?
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I have to say that this one of the reasons I don't like flirting very much. Honestly, I prefer flirting with gay men over anyone else because it's safe and fun.
I don't like it when someone is all flirty with me and then I feel pressured to flirt back and when I do the person hits on me! I remember one particular instance where a guy at work flirted with me and I thought it was just in good fun. He wasn't ugly or I wouldn't have flirted with him at all and in fact he was attractive but I wasn't interested and he ended up smacking me on the ass. I probably should have went to human resources but it happened so fast and I basically told him not to ever touch me again or I would punch him in the face. Thank God he left me alone after that! What a creep!
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I know what you mean. When guys straight up hit on me without knowing me first, it annoys me, specially because they usually seem desperate and it feels wrong. But when guys act friendly and respectful and I end up liking them, that's when I'm friendzoned, so I can't ever win. Maybe I've got an unrealistic view on romance. :/