One idea I have is that if you are moving quite slow these guys have probably come to see you as a friend and are looking at other girls by the time you ask them out. They probably think of you too much as a friend to want to be romantic with you anymore.
I wouldn't worry about it too much, romance will happen in your life. It would happen even if you tried to avoid it, do it what you can to get out there but don't stress too much.
I think you are right, I did take too long and he told me I am just a friend...the problem is that I'm way too shy so I end up waiting too long, and people tell me that men don't like when girls make the first move so it scares me to do anything...sincerely, I only confess my feelings so I can be rejected to have closure and move on faster.
Thanks, I hope it does happen someday.
Is it normal that I am rejected by people who flirt with me?
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One idea I have is that if you are moving quite slow these guys have probably come to see you as a friend and are looking at other girls by the time you ask them out. They probably think of you too much as a friend to want to be romantic with you anymore.
I wouldn't worry about it too much, romance will happen in your life. It would happen even if you tried to avoid it, do it what you can to get out there but don't stress too much.
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I think you are right, I did take too long and he told me I am just a friend...the problem is that I'm way too shy so I end up waiting too long, and people tell me that men don't like when girls make the first move so it scares me to do anything...sincerely, I only confess my feelings so I can be rejected to have closure and move on faster.
Thanks, I hope it does happen someday.