It's not really a good idea to tell someone who they can and can't talk to because unless the person is has no spine he or she will see it as a challenge and feel compelled to go against your wishes. I wouldn't be surprised if it turns out that he's cheating on you or is contemplating cheating on you with this girl. I agree with Peter in that I think you should dump your boyfriend, cut your losses and move on with your life.
I am curious however, as to why your boyfriend even told you about this girl to begin with; it's and insecure douchebag move on his part. I can't help but wonder as to whether or not he gets off on your jealousy. Some people are so insecure that they don't feel good about themselves unless someone is jealous over them. This all sounds like too much drama to me. I suspect you'd be better off alone. You can tell him what he can and can't do until you're blue in the face but please try to understand that you are powerless over his thoughts, emotions and actions.
He constantly tells me about girls that like him and text him and tell him he's cute and even shows me messages and like I sometimes tell him when guys tell me I'm cute and he won't even want to hear it like he'll cut me off. I don't know why he does this any ideas?
Is it normal that I am reacting like this?
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It's not really a good idea to tell someone who they can and can't talk to because unless the person is has no spine he or she will see it as a challenge and feel compelled to go against your wishes. I wouldn't be surprised if it turns out that he's cheating on you or is contemplating cheating on you with this girl. I agree with Peter in that I think you should dump your boyfriend, cut your losses and move on with your life.
I am curious however, as to why your boyfriend even told you about this girl to begin with; it's and insecure douchebag move on his part. I can't help but wonder as to whether or not he gets off on your jealousy. Some people are so insecure that they don't feel good about themselves unless someone is jealous over them. This all sounds like too much drama to me. I suspect you'd be better off alone. You can tell him what he can and can't do until you're blue in the face but please try to understand that you are powerless over his thoughts, emotions and actions.
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He constantly tells me about girls that like him and text him and tell him he's cute and even shows me messages and like I sometimes tell him when guys tell me I'm cute and he won't even want to hear it like he'll cut me off. I don't know why he does this any ideas?
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He sounds like an insecure jerk with a chip on his shoulder who is trying to prove something. Perhaps, you could do better with someone else?