hmmm. Have you tried NOT imagining a woman as a male, but simply looking at a clean cut, fit, masculine man? Or a beautiful long haired, smart, down to earth feminine woman? See, where I'm from there are a lot of whores, dirty men and women, so when a female says, "Fuck men! I want pussy" lol , it's because they 1. already want the women anyway but also there's not many of us good men to give her an alternative.
I'm not downing any decisions, I'm simply more curious. Most women and men that I know.KNOW what it is they like and have the confidence to go for it, fuck everyone else. I'm trying to see exactly what it is that turns you on or off. Some women or men wouldn't look well as the other gender. So simply find what attracts you in each gender. Try looking at it outside of the sexual thoughts. also analize lol, your sexual thoughts....do you prefer breast over broad chest, vagina over penis, hairy over sleek, the difference of how the emotions are displayed.
I feel that if you break it down then you'll get your answer. I dated a woman who loved women, but preferred men. We talked about how our relationship would always include another. She was dominant over the woman, but submissive under me. Maybe you just need a middle ground. Date both women AND men, see if you can then choose afterwards Be upfront, though. Try dating another bisexual though, my advice, because apparently lesbians and gays think that bisexuality isn't real or something. As told by my ex. Oh, our relationship was great, but even with the freedom we had, she was still in love with another guy and I wasn't ready to settle again after a bad breakup, but we are the coolest friends...."friends" too.
Is it normal that I am only attracted to gay men or masculine girls?
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hmmm. Have you tried NOT imagining a woman as a male, but simply looking at a clean cut, fit, masculine man? Or a beautiful long haired, smart, down to earth feminine woman? See, where I'm from there are a lot of whores, dirty men and women, so when a female says, "Fuck men! I want pussy" lol , it's because they 1. already want the women anyway but also there's not many of us good men to give her an alternative.
I'm not downing any decisions, I'm simply more curious. Most women and men that I know.KNOW what it is they like and have the confidence to go for it, fuck everyone else. I'm trying to see exactly what it is that turns you on or off. Some women or men wouldn't look well as the other gender. So simply find what attracts you in each gender. Try looking at it outside of the sexual thoughts. also analize lol, your sexual thoughts....do you prefer breast over broad chest, vagina over penis, hairy over sleek, the difference of how the emotions are displayed.
I feel that if you break it down then you'll get your answer. I dated a woman who loved women, but preferred men. We talked about how our relationship would always include another. She was dominant over the woman, but submissive under me. Maybe you just need a middle ground. Date both women AND men, see if you can then choose afterwards Be upfront, though. Try dating another bisexual though, my advice, because apparently lesbians and gays think that bisexuality isn't real or something. As told by my ex. Oh, our relationship was great, but even with the freedom we had, she was still in love with another guy and I wasn't ready to settle again after a bad breakup, but we are the coolest friends...."friends" too.