I think that the best solution is finding a girlfriend who is sexually compatible with you and loves giving blowjobs. Don't hate yourself for your sexual preference - at least you like something very much and if your GF really likes it, she will be happy and aroused by seeing how much you enjoy it.
My boyfriend strongly prefers handjobs and blowjobs to intercourse and in the past he felt weird because of it as well. However, since I enjoy giving BJ and HJ very much, he feels comfortable about it now. Actually, I prefer to have his orgasms that way because there are more aspects of his orgasm and ejaculation for me to enjoy in comparison with intercourse. These preferences even contribute to our great sex life and we are perfectly happy with that. That is why I think that finding a partner who is sexually compatible with you is the best way how to deal with your problem
On the other hand, I can understand that the inability to keep an erection during intercourse troubles you and has a negative effect on your self-esteem. I think wearing a cock ring during intercourse could help you - it would help your penis stay erect because it traps the blood in the penis. Cock rings sit at the base of the penis and scroutum where they help reduce the blood flow out of the penis. It may be worth trying that. Good luck!
Is it normal that I am only aroused by women giving head?
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I think that the best solution is finding a girlfriend who is sexually compatible with you and loves giving blowjobs. Don't hate yourself for your sexual preference - at least you like something very much and if your GF really likes it, she will be happy and aroused by seeing how much you enjoy it.
My boyfriend strongly prefers handjobs and blowjobs to intercourse and in the past he felt weird because of it as well. However, since I enjoy giving BJ and HJ very much, he feels comfortable about it now. Actually, I prefer to have his orgasms that way because there are more aspects of his orgasm and ejaculation for me to enjoy in comparison with intercourse. These preferences even contribute to our great sex life and we are perfectly happy with that. That is why I think that finding a partner who is sexually compatible with you is the best way how to deal with your problem
On the other hand, I can understand that the inability to keep an erection during intercourse troubles you and has a negative effect on your self-esteem. I think wearing a cock ring during intercourse could help you - it would help your penis stay erect because it traps the blood in the penis. Cock rings sit at the base of the penis and scroutum where they help reduce the blood flow out of the penis. It may be worth trying that. Good luck!