Is it normal that i am jealous of my sisters baby my niece?

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I am feeling strong jealousy towards my sisters first baby. I have none. I am gay so i cant just get pregnant. But i want to be. She just had one. she did not ever call me during her labor. I found out threw my mom the day my niece was born. Now when i look at my niece i have this horrible feeling in my stomach. I guess what i am feeling is jealousy. My question is why do i feel this way and will it stay in my head or will i grow to cause her issues because of the way i feel?

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  • BurnaBaby27
    11 years ago | pl

    Why are you jealous of the baby and not of your sister?
    You can always visit a sperm bank to conceive a baby :/.
    I used to hate every pregnant woman I'd see cuz I wanted a baby so bad. Now I have one! Being pregnant isn't all it's cracked up to be either. It hurts like shit towards the end.

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    • paydity
      11 years ago | pl

      see thats it.. I dont know. When i look at the baby or see a picture of her. My stomach turns and i want to cry. I dont understand why i am feeling this way. Probably a good thing to talk to my therapist about.

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  • joybird
    11 years ago | pl

    Don't blame the child!!

    However, I have a friend who said she cried buckets of tears coz she couldn't have children BUT she has cried more tears since she has had two of them!!

    Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it!!

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    • paydity
      11 years ago | pl

      I hope i do get it. I wish upon a star. Star light star bright i wish i may i wish i might have this wish i wish tonight. I wish for a beautiful baby girl named LILY!!!

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      • joybird
        11 years ago | pl

        You couldn't have picked a worse name - trust me!!!

        However, you could prove a useful ally for your sister. Offer to babysit as much as possible - for no other reason than to knock this silly idea out of your head. Unless you're at least 28 of course and have actually matured.

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      • XxBlackSheepxX
        11 years ago | pl

        yaaaa......you really need that therapist....

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  • theabider
    11 years ago | pl

    Why can't you get artificially inseminated?

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  • I'llPoopOnYourChest
    11 years ago | pl

    Why Don't You Just Eat It.

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  • xogirlygirlxo
    11 years ago | pl

    i have the same problem as you, i want a baby, unfortunatly i have a medical problem and its almost impossible for me to get pregnant, maybe you should look into adoption, that way you can have a baby, but also your helping a child find a loving home, :), x

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    • paydity
      11 years ago | pl

      adoption takes so long. I have a plan to get pregnant in 2 years. i have to get off my meds and stop smoking before i can get pregnant.

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