Is it normal that i am in love with a 15 year old girl?

I know it is strange but I am 28 years old and I am in love with this girl who is only 15 years old. Its not sexual or anything, and we have been seeing each other for quite awhile. Its just we have everything in common and shes very mature for her age, but we haven't told anyone so they don't think I'm a creep. Is this normal?

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  • manonthespot

    I believe it to be normal, i mean i am 31 and i love a 15 year old myself, i have known her for years it not like we just met, you can't help who you fall in love with, Your heart tells you if you are in love, in my own personal experience, this 15 year old i know she very mature, we have nothing sexual at all, we hang out watch tv, talk, i help encourage her to do well in school, true love is about wanting what is best for the other person about wanting see them happy, it not about an age, it about the way you feel when you are with them,doesn't have be sexual just pure simple innocent communication and company, her and i have so much in common we like same music, same movies, we have so much more in common i feel i can talk to her about anything and she feels same way towards me,yes we do cuddle, we hold each other on the couch, her mom knows and is OK with it her dad, not so much so,she has touched me in many ways i have had girl friends in past and have plenty of girls my age that are interested in me, but something about this girl, it hurts me to be away from her like part my heart is missing, i would die for this girl in a heart beat,she has saved my life i have saved hers, we share a common deep bond most people only dream about finding in life in a relationship, we have found that in each other.Is this normal and would you show concern if you saw me and this girl together

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  • WhiteOctober

    Completely normal!

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  • LiveToLove

    I think that this is perfectly normal. When I was 15 I was very mature for my age and I think I just grew up fast. Just don't pressure her into anything she doesn't want to do :) be safe, and I wish you the best of luck

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  • Jerry12

    I am 25 and I learn in life, as a male you have to know yourself and if you want more than friendship, then stay far away from 15, 16, 17 years old and younger because you will stay to get feelings for them and things after that will happen.

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  • KGONEA01

    I think it is very normal. In all reality age is just a number but yes it would be weird if she were younger or if she was immature . But I am 15 years old myself and I grew up around dumb adults which caused me to grow up faster and be more mature. I started having relations with a 30 year old and we've clicked ever since . Ever since we've met we've had a very deep connection. We make each other laugh more than anybody else. He looks like he could be a 17 year old boy and I look like a 17 year old girl . He completes me mentally, and sexually. Yes we're sexually involved . If this is weird for anybody to take in well then it's not your place to judge. In the past I have been broken , put back together , and broken again by so many men in my life . I've been disrespected sexually , mentally , and physically by men my entire life . But now I've found someone who makes me feel safe . Like I said age is only a number it's weird that we found each other in such an opposite world . Like everyone around us we're immature slutty girls who had nothin better to do than lie , cheat , do drugs , and act 15 years behind what they really are . The fact that we had so much in common and our mentality matched so well really drew us together. It's honestly all about someone's maturity. I grew up way too fast which caused to have trust issues and also caused me to have a good head on my shoulders. Yes, my mind is ahead in age , I'm probably like 50 years old or more in the head , but at the same time I have the heart of a child . So it's hard for me cause my love runs so deep.

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  • mmmmyeah 15.

    am 41.

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  • miimii20110391

    It's Okay :)
    I felt the same feeling with the girl

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  • DamonSalvatore

    [ Mine ]
    First , i'm facing a same problem too .... But I was loving a girl that is older than me .. I know her very early but I just aware that I;m in love with her ..

    I kept in my heart and don't what to do actually ... The most problematic happen is she is not same races with me !!

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  • manticore

    first off, a friendship is a relationship, love isn't sex, and intamicy comes in more forms than sex. I'm in a similar situation so I don't think it's strange. I'm 30 and love a 15 year old . she's told her mom she loves me and they've discussed what she thinks love is. I've known her for a while . her mother is fine with it as long as we don't have sex till she's 18,which is fine with me. as I said before, love isn't sex. we have fun,we cuddle(intamicy),and enjoy being around one another. I've left a few times because of social conventions about this sort of thing,but it's only broken her heart and mine multiple times. if your out to hook up and trolling for a 15 year old to have sex with,then yes I agree with society. but I fell into this completly by accident. same thing. this girl grew up around adults and is mature for her age. I agree with everyone on the no sex till 18. if you can't do that then it's not love. also realize that she might see you differently in a year or 2 and not want that relationship anymore. you will have to respect and accept that. that's my fear, but have come to terms with the fact.

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  • If it's not sexual or anything it's not a relationship. It's a friendship.

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  • loading123

    It's normal to fall in love with anyone. It's NOT normal to act on it. If you start having sex with this girl you are classed as a pedophile and are breaking the law. Until she turns 18, it's illegal to be any more than friends with this girl. So if I were you, I would stay clear of the child! I'm 17 btw.

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  • Its a little strange and if it does turn sexual you'll have to leave. The whole..illegal thing. But...I guess stay friends and see if you feel the same when she's 18. Things change. I wish you luck, hun.
    -13 dating a 15 year old. I totally understand.

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  • semi-charmed

    Sorry, I just don't think it would really work in anyway. It's totally not accepted in socity and you're basically in two differnet time frames.

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  • NickNick

    her dad will kill ya. good luck :)

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