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I am sick of day after day of the same routine. I am beginning to dislike what I am doing with my life and all I really desire is to have a meaningful relationship with someone. Am I normal? What am I doing wrong? I am definitely doing something wrong. Also, how can I meet someone?
I'm thinking that if you start discovering what you really want to be doing -- talking to a career counselor might help -- and if you start working towards those goals (further education, job change, etc.) then your social world might open up at the same time and you may meet someone with similar interests. The truth is, you will find a happy, secure relationship when you feel that way about yourself. I'd start with uncovering a job or direction that gives your life more meaning and fulfillment. You only live once, and it's never too late to make a change, especially when you are single and free.
There are a ton of resources online that you can Google about from career counseling, free social clubs near you like "Meetup", dating services, discount travel websites, local recreational activity groups like bicycle clubs, free group counseling, and the list goes on and on...limited only by your time and your imagination. There are even free software tools online that can help you sort out your thoughts and plot a course.
Here is an interesting find:
http://www.hypnosisdownloads.com/
Again, just Google a question you have and explore the links. Good luck.
I can understand. I'm a bit stressed at work and on a self-enforced break from dating so things are often tedious for me too. I probably spend too much time on IIN and invest time here that I'd normally invest in a relationship.
The best way I've found of meeting people is via friends. Oh, and to be loved, be lovable.