I think it's a little sneaky of you to be asking his sister about his past. If he's not willing to open up about it, you should have some respect for him and his right to privacy rather than go digging for information from his family.
If I was him, and found out you had been asking about me behind my back, I'd be hurt and feel you weren't as trustworthy as I hoped you were.
Is it normal that I am confused about my boyfriend's traumatic past?
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I think it's a little sneaky of you to be asking his sister about his past. If he's not willing to open up about it, you should have some respect for him and his right to privacy rather than go digging for information from his family.
If I was him, and found out you had been asking about me behind my back, I'd be hurt and feel you weren't as trustworthy as I hoped you were.