Okay, but it didn't sound that way to me. It sounded really disrespectful. Has he ever done anything to weird or done anything that scares you?
I think it was up to him if he wanted to share this with you. It was not up to her. You and him are together, and even if she is a friend, I don't think it was her place to tell you all of this.
Maybe she meant well, but, I don't think that was a good way to show it.
Is it normal that I am confused about my boyfriend's traumatic past?
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Okay, but it didn't sound that way to me. It sounded really disrespectful. Has he ever done anything to weird or done anything that scares you?
I think it was up to him if he wanted to share this with you. It was not up to her. You and him are together, and even if she is a friend, I don't think it was her place to tell you all of this.
Maybe she meant well, but, I don't think that was a good way to show it.