I agree with most of what you say... but his sister wasn't trying to be mean! She is one of the few people that were actually nice to him, she was like her true mother. She knows him much better than me I guess. She is just still trying to take care of his "little" brother.
Your boyfriend has chosen not to discuss his past and if you keep badgering him about it, you're not going to have a boyfriend. If you don't respect his decision, then you don't respect him. Leave it alone!
Okay, but it didn't sound that way to me. It sounded really disrespectful. Has he ever done anything to weird or done anything that scares you?
I think it was up to him if he wanted to share this with you. It was not up to her. You and him are together, and even if she is a friend, I don't think it was her place to tell you all of this.
Maybe she meant well, but, I don't think that was a good way to show it.
Is it normal that I am confused about my boyfriend's traumatic past?
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I agree with most of what you say... but his sister wasn't trying to be mean! She is one of the few people that were actually nice to him, she was like her true mother. She knows him much better than me I guess. She is just still trying to take care of his "little" brother.
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Your boyfriend has chosen not to discuss his past and if you keep badgering him about it, you're not going to have a boyfriend. If you don't respect his decision, then you don't respect him. Leave it alone!
Okay, but it didn't sound that way to me. It sounded really disrespectful. Has he ever done anything to weird or done anything that scares you?
I think it was up to him if he wanted to share this with you. It was not up to her. You and him are together, and even if she is a friend, I don't think it was her place to tell you all of this.
Maybe she meant well, but, I don't think that was a good way to show it.